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FastStart:
Fall, 2003
Newsletter
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In
this Edition:
One Mentor Finds Her Match
Fun at the FastStart BBQ
Is time running out? Fix it!
Methods of Communication
Upcoming Campus Events
Upcoming FastStart Events
One
Mentor Finds Her Match
By Betsy Roy and Sean Torino
Coming
to college and being in a new environment can be a very trying and overwhelming
experience. Penn State offers various programs and support systems, such
as FastStart mentoring, that help incoming students better acclimate themselves
to their surroundings. However, amidst the rush of endless papers, nerve-racking
exams, and day-to-day social responsibilities, mentoring sometimes becomes
our last priority. Of course it’s only natural for both mentors
and mentees to take this personally; no one wants to be left out in the
dust and not know why. As difficult as it may be, both mentors and mentees
should not let their first bad experiences determine the course of their
involvement with FastStart or any other such programs. If every match
in life came out to be a perfect one then we would live in a perfect world
and as many of us can attest for, this is rarely the case. To quote the
sensible words of Forrest Gump, “Life is like a box of chocolates;
you never know what you’re gonna get.” Rocky beginnings may
lead to smoother endings; however, the only true way to find out is to
keep at it and give it another go.
One such
example is Elana Pyle who works in the College of Health and Human Development,
in the Center for Development and Health Genetics. This is Elana’s
second year as a mentor and things have been going very well with her
new mentee Marsida Ndrio. “We hit it off from the very beginning”,
comments Elana, who was simply hoping to make contact with Marsida after
last year when she never was able to get a hold of her mentee. Elana went
on to comment that she and Marsida have been in contact at least every
other week. They have gone to dinner together, Marsida has visited Elana’s
office, and Elana has even been brave enough to visit the dorms. Elana
agrees that one of the most important parts of starting off a relationship
with a student is to make contact at the welcome reception at the beginning
of the year. She also feels finding a convenient way of communicating
with your mentee, be it instant message, cell phone, or email, is vital
in maintaining contact and keeping up the relationship. Her advice to
those still trying to make contact with their mentee is not to get discouraged;
if a student never makes contact there is a good chance that the next
year the new student will be totally different and a relationship will
blossom.
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Fun at the FastStart BBQ
By Nancy Trinh and Ted Honyumptewa
It
was a good day to meet, eat, and be happy! September 28, 2003 marked the
second annual FastStart BBQ. Just as the year before, mentors and mentees
celebrated with fun and games at the Hintz Family Alumni Center. This
BBQ was also one of the first of many events that FastStart has planned
for the year. For many participants, this gave them a chance to meet new
people and enjoy a warm afternoon. It also was the first time many of
the Fast Start students had the chance to meet their mentor(s). Jim Fong
finally had the chance to meet his mentee, Daming Chung. They had a blast
talking with one another about school, life, and other interests including
“exchanging eBay” tips. According to Daming, these FastStart
events are a great way to “meet with wise people on a one-one-one
basis.” It was evident that other successful Fast Start matches
were made. Rob Cathcart met his mentee, Michael Jovellanos, for the first
time. Like others, Michael participates in FastStart because he likes
meeting new people and Rob enjoys the “chance to make a positive
impact.” The barbeque helped Michael and Rob establish a good start
to their relationship.
While mentors and mentees met, everyone sat and talked as well as played
games while enjoying a delicious afternoon meal. For those who came for
a good time, they were not disappointed. There were plenty of games to
play and people to chat with. Perhaps the most exciting event at the BBQ
was the jeopardy game. Everyone shuffled inside and away from the hot
sun to play. Everybody enjoyed a good time and they all had a lot of fun.
All in all it was a good turnout. If you did not make it to this event,
don’t worry. Be sure to come to our many other scheduled events!
And for mentors who can’t make it to campus events, encourage your
mentee to do and interact with other students and mentors.
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Is
time running out? Fix it!
By Ted Honyumptewa
Do you feel like you always run out of time to do something?
At Penn State, or college in general, it is easy to become sidetracked.
There are classes, exams, parties, clubs, sports events and many other
distractions. Here are a few suggestions as to what you can do to help
get your life back on track.
1. Keep a calendar or organizer on hand: This may sound dorky, but it
will help you to keep track of what you need to do and when you need to
do them by.
2. Set time aside for studying: Always know when exams are and study for
them. Who sets a specific time to go to the gym? A lot of people do. Why
not then set aside a specific time to study? If you haven’t learned
already, it is not a good idea to study at the last minute…DON’T
CRAM.
3. Make to do lists: No your mother is not the only person in the world
who still uses to do lists. Join her and make to do lists of your own.
Before you go to bed make a small to do list as to what you need to accomplish
the next day. It’s quick and another easy way to help keep you on
track.
4. Prioritize: Make sure you get the most important things done first.
And just if some of you forgot, parties and/or time for the gym should
not come first if you have an exam coming up.
Here are just a few tips as to what you can do to help you keep your time
organized. Remember that amongst other things, the reason we all came
to college is to learn. For more information on managing your time, the
University Learning Centers are a good resource. You can also ask
your RA’s to help you manage your time or you can attend Counseling
and Psychological Services (CAPS) session: Coping with Stress for Exams.
Good luck!
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Methods
of Communication
By Nancy Trinh
All of the following are great ways of communicating with
your mentee. Just pick one that would be convenient for you and you’re
well on your way to maintaining an awesome relationship with your protégé.
1. E-mail – All Faststart students have a Penn State email account
or other email address. Keep all emails as short and to the point as possible
though. It’s hard for to reply to an email that’s a page long.
2. AOL Instant Messenger – Many, if not all, college students will
use some form of internet chatting. It’s convenient and also a great
way to talk to many people at the same time. The most popular internet
chatting application AOL Instant Messenger
(more commonly known as AIM), but there’s also MSN
and Yahoo messengers. Find out
which of the three your protégé has and download it. You’ll
find that it makes keeping in contact very simple and easy.
3. Phone – When you can’t be there to see your protégé
in person, the phone is always the next best thing. You can have a real,
living, breathing conversation.
4. Work place visit/tours – Invite your mentee to tour your workplace
one day. It makes your mentee feel special when you introduce them to
your co-workers as “my mentee.”
5. Postcards – These are always short, sweet, and to the point.
Your mentee will be grateful that you took the time to send them a short
message. They will also be able to hang the picture up on their wall.
6. Postal Mail – This is a great way to say that you put a lot of
time and consideration into the message. Don’t ask so many questions,
but rather, describe your experiences at PSU or something you found interesting
lately. If you have something in common, talk about that too.
7. Lunch or Cup of Coffee – As one of the few methods that involves
person to person contact, the conversations that you have will be more
personal and it’s always good to see your protégés’
face. Some good places to go include:
a. Irving’s (near the intersection of College and Allen)
b. MacKinnon’s (The basement level café under Pattee Library)
c. Outside on a bench (though this may be a bit harder when it gets cold
outside)
d. HUB eateries/coffee shops
e. The Creamery (near the intersection of Shortlidge and Curtin)
f. West Wing/Moxie Lounge (in Waring Commons)
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Upcoming
Campus Events
By Betsy Roy
The following campus events are great opportunities for
students to enhance their experience of Penn State. Mentors can attend
many of these programs with their student or encourage their student to
attend on their own or with friends. For additional events please visit
the online calendar of campus events.
Volunteer opportunities:
Into the Streets:
The Into the Streets program hosts a variety of Centre County non-profit
agencies who need volunteers to participate in one-day community service
projects. Held once a month each semester on a Saturday or Sunday for
a few hours, Into the Streets is a wonderful way to learn about many of
the non-profit agencies in the community
Saturday, November 22nd, 2003
Saturday, December 6th, 2003
CAPS,
Personal Issues Series :
Located in Room 304 HUB-Robeson Center
Wednesday, November 5, 7:00 pm
THE IMPACT OF DEPRESSION ON RELATIONSHIPS
Julie States, Ph.D., Psychologist
Kathy Corcoran, M.S.N., C.R.N.P., Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner
Wednesday, November 19, 7:00 pm
UNDERSTANDING AND HELPING OTHERS WITH EATING DISORDERS
Mary Anne Knapp, M.S.W., Clinical Social Worker
Cynthia Edwards-Hawver, Pre-Doctoral Intern in Psychology
Wednesday, December 3, 8:30 pm
COPING WITH STRESS FOR EXAMS
Katie Cougevan, Ph.D., Staff Psychologist
Courtney Clay, M.F.T., Pre-Doctoral Intern in Psychology
MBNA
Career Services, Wednesday Workshops:
Located in 103 MBNA Services Center
Orientation to Career Services: Nov. 5, 3:35p.m.
– 4:25pm
Internship and Summer Job Search: Nov. 5, 4:40 – 5:30pm, Nov. 19,
1:25-2:15pm
Networking: Nov. 12, 3:35-4:25pm
Resume Prep: Nov. 5, 1:25-2:15pm, Nov. 12, 12:20-1:10pm, Nov. 19, 5:45-6:35pm
Arts
and Exhibits:
Through the Looking Glass: Women and Self-Representation in
Contemporary Art Details:
Location: Special Exhibitions Gallery I, Palmer Museum of Art, October
21, 2003 through January 25, 2004
Devotion and Diversity: South Asian Sculpture from the Philadelphia Museum
of Art
Location: Tonkin Gallery of Asian and African Art, Palmer Museum of Art.
Raising the Question Film Series
Location: Paul Robeson Cultural Center - Room 016
Dec. 4, 7:30 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
Topic: Holla!! - Images in Hip-Hop Music.
Distinguished
Speaker Series:
Thursday, November 6, 2003: Jesse Ventura (Tickets available October 29,
30, 31)
Thursday, February 5, 2004: Maya Angelou
Monday, March 29, 2004: Linda Chavez
Tickets are available at the Eisenhower Auditorium Box
Lecture
New York, the Secret African City by Robert Farris Thompson. Thompson
is the Colonel John Trumbull professor, history of art; professor of African-American
studies; and master of Timothy Dwight College at Yale University.
Nov. 7th, 7:30 p.m. in the Schwab Auditorium.
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| Date |
Upcoming
FastStart Events |
| 11/6
(Thu) |
FastStart
Networking Tea
Time:
4:00-6:00pm
Location:110 Henderson Building |
| 12/5
(Fri) |
FastStart
Fall Celebration
Time: 5:00-7:00pm
Location: Heritage Hall, HUB-Robeson Center
RSVP by December 1, 2003 |
| 1/7
(Wed) |
FastStart
Winter Celebration in Philadelphia
Time:
4:00-6:00pm
Location: Philadelphia Recruitment Center
RSVP by December 22, 2003
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Questions
We
welcome your comments and questions. To get involved, please call 814-863-6386
or e-mail FastStartInfo@psu.edu.
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