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FastStart: Fall, 2003 Newsletter
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In this Edition:

One Mentor Finds Her Match
Fun at the FastStart BBQ
Is time running out? Fix it!
Methods of Communication
Upcoming Campus Events
Upcoming FastStart Events


One Mentor Finds Her Match
By Betsy Roy and Sean Torino

Coming to college and being in a new environment can be a very trying and overwhelming experience. Penn State offers various programs and support systems, such as FastStart mentoring, that help incoming students better acclimate themselves to their surroundings. However, amidst the rush of endless papers, nerve-racking exams, and day-to-day social responsibilities, mentoring sometimes becomes our last priority. Of course it’s only natural for both mentors and mentees to take this personally; no one wants to be left out in the dust and not know why. As difficult as it may be, both mentors and mentees should not let their first bad experiences determine the course of their involvement with FastStart or any other such programs. If every match in life came out to be a perfect one then we would live in a perfect world and as many of us can attest for, this is rarely the case. To quote the sensible words of Forrest Gump, “Life is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you’re gonna get.” Rocky beginnings may lead to smoother endings; however, the only true way to find out is to keep at it and give it another go.

One such example is Elana Pyle who works in the College of Health and Human Development, in the Center for Development and Health Genetics. This is Elana’s second year as a mentor and things have been going very well with her new mentee Marsida Ndrio. “We hit it off from the very beginning”, comments Elana, who was simply hoping to make contact with Marsida after last year when she never was able to get a hold of her mentee. Elana went on to comment that she and Marsida have been in contact at least every other week. They have gone to dinner together, Marsida has visited Elana’s office, and Elana has even been brave enough to visit the dorms. Elana agrees that one of the most important parts of starting off a relationship with a student is to make contact at the welcome reception at the beginning of the year. She also feels finding a convenient way of communicating with your mentee, be it instant message, cell phone, or email, is vital in maintaining contact and keeping up the relationship. Her advice to those still trying to make contact with their mentee is not to get discouraged; if a student never makes contact there is a good chance that the next year the new student will be totally different and a relationship will blossom.

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Fun at the FastStart BBQ
By Nancy Trinh and Ted Honyumptewa


It was a good day to meet, eat, and be happy! September 28, 2003 marked the second annual FastStart BBQ. Just as the year before, mentors and mentees celebrated with fun and games at the Hintz Family Alumni Center. This BBQ was also one of the first of many events that FastStart has planned for the year. For many participants, this gave them a chance to meet new people and enjoy a warm afternoon. It also was the first time many of the Fast Start students had the chance to meet their mentor(s). Jim Fong finally had the chance to meet his mentee, Daming Chung. They had a blast talking with one another about school, life, and other interests including “exchanging eBay” tips. According to Daming, these FastStart events are a great way to “meet with wise people on a one-one-one basis.” It was evident that other successful Fast Start matches were made. Rob Cathcart met his mentee, Michael Jovellanos, for the first time. Like others, Michael participates in FastStart because he likes meeting new people and Rob enjoys the “chance to make a positive impact.” The barbeque helped Michael and Rob establish a good start to their relationship.

While mentors and mentees met, everyone sat and talked as well as played games while enjoying a delicious afternoon meal. For those who came for a good time, they were not disappointed. There were plenty of games to play and people to chat with. Perhaps the most exciting event at the BBQ was the jeopardy game. Everyone shuffled inside and away from the hot sun to play. Everybody enjoyed a good time and they all had a lot of fun. All in all it was a good turnout. If you did not make it to this event, don’t worry. Be sure to come to our many other scheduled events! And for mentors who can’t make it to campus events, encourage your mentee to do and interact with other students and mentors.

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Is time running out? Fix it!
By Ted Honyumptewa

Do you feel like you always run out of time to do something? At Penn State, or college in general, it is easy to become sidetracked. There are classes, exams, parties, clubs, sports events and many other distractions. Here are a few suggestions as to what you can do to help get your life back on track.

1. Keep a calendar or organizer on hand: This may sound dorky, but it will help you to keep track of what you need to do and when you need to do them by.

2. Set time aside for studying: Always know when exams are and study for them. Who sets a specific time to go to the gym? A lot of people do. Why not then set aside a specific time to study? If you haven’t learned already, it is not a good idea to study at the last minute…DON’T CRAM.

3. Make to do lists: No your mother is not the only person in the world who still uses to do lists. Join her and make to do lists of your own. Before you go to bed make a small to do list as to what you need to accomplish the next day. It’s quick and another easy way to help keep you on track.

4. Prioritize: Make sure you get the most important things done first. And just if some of you forgot, parties and/or time for the gym should not come first if you have an exam coming up.
Here are just a few tips as to what you can do to help you keep your time organized. Remember that amongst other things, the reason we all came to college is to learn. For more information on managing your time, the University Learning Centers are a good resource. You can also ask your RA’s to help you manage your time or you can attend Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS) session: Coping with Stress for Exams. Good luck!


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Methods of Communication
By Nancy Trinh

All of the following are great ways of communicating with your mentee. Just pick one that would be convenient for you and you’re well on your way to maintaining an awesome relationship with your protégé.

1. E-mail – All Faststart students have a Penn State email account or other email address. Keep all emails as short and to the point as possible though. It’s hard for to reply to an email that’s a page long.

2. AOL Instant Messenger – Many, if not all, college students will use some form of internet chatting. It’s convenient and also a great way to talk to many people at the same time. The most popular internet chatting application AOL Instant Messenger (more commonly known as AIM), but there’s also MSN and Yahoo messengers. Find out which of the three your protégé has and download it. You’ll find that it makes keeping in contact very simple and easy.

3. Phone – When you can’t be there to see your protégé in person, the phone is always the next best thing. You can have a real, living, breathing conversation.

4. Work place visit/tours – Invite your mentee to tour your workplace one day. It makes your mentee feel special when you introduce them to your co-workers as “my mentee.”

5. Postcards – These are always short, sweet, and to the point. Your mentee will be grateful that you took the time to send them a short message. They will also be able to hang the picture up on their wall.

6. Postal Mail – This is a great way to say that you put a lot of time and consideration into the message. Don’t ask so many questions, but rather, describe your experiences at PSU or something you found interesting lately. If you have something in common, talk about that too.

7. Lunch or Cup of Coffee – As one of the few methods that involves person to person contact, the conversations that you have will be more personal and it’s always good to see your protégés’ face. Some good places to go include:

a. Irving’s (near the intersection of College and Allen)
b. MacKinnon’s (The basement level café under Pattee Library)
c. Outside on a bench (though this may be a bit harder when it gets cold outside)
d. HUB eateries/coffee shops
e. The Creamery (near the intersection of Shortlidge and Curtin)
f. West Wing/Moxie Lounge (in Waring Commons)

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Upcoming Campus Events
By Betsy Roy

The following campus events are great opportunities for students to enhance their experience of Penn State. Mentors can attend many of these programs with their student or encourage their student to attend on their own or with friends. For additional events please visit the online calendar of campus events.

Volunteer opportunities:

Into the Streets:
The Into the Streets program hosts a variety of Centre County non-profit agencies who need volunteers to participate in one-day community service projects. Held once a month each semester on a Saturday or Sunday for a few hours, Into the Streets is a wonderful way to learn about many of the non-profit agencies in the community

Saturday, November 22nd, 2003
Saturday, December 6th, 2003

CAPS, Personal Issues Series :
Located in Room 304 HUB-Robeson Center

Wednesday, November 5, 7:00 pm
THE IMPACT OF DEPRESSION ON RELATIONSHIPS
Julie States, Ph.D., Psychologist
Kathy Corcoran, M.S.N., C.R.N.P., Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner

Wednesday, November 19, 7:00 pm
UNDERSTANDING AND HELPING OTHERS WITH EATING DISORDERS
Mary Anne Knapp, M.S.W., Clinical Social Worker
Cynthia Edwards-Hawver, Pre-Doctoral Intern in Psychology

Wednesday, December 3, 8:30 pm
COPING WITH STRESS FOR EXAMS
Katie Cougevan, Ph.D., Staff Psychologist
Courtney Clay, M.F.T., Pre-Doctoral Intern in Psychology

MBNA Career Services, Wednesday Workshops:
Located in 103 MBNA Services Center

Orientation to Career Services: Nov. 5, 3:35p.m. – 4:25pm
Internship and Summer Job Search: Nov. 5, 4:40 – 5:30pm, Nov. 19, 1:25-2:15pm
Networking: Nov. 12, 3:35-4:25pm
Resume Prep: Nov. 5, 1:25-2:15pm, Nov. 12, 12:20-1:10pm, Nov. 19, 5:45-6:35pm

Arts and Exhibits:
Through the Looking Glass: Women and Self-Representation in

Contemporary Art Details:
Location: Special Exhibitions Gallery I, Palmer Museum of Art, October 21, 2003 through January 25, 2004

Devotion and Diversity: South Asian Sculpture from the Philadelphia Museum of Art
Location: Tonkin Gallery of Asian and African Art, Palmer Museum of Art.

Raising the Question Film Series
Location: Paul Robeson Cultural Center - Room 016

Dec. 4, 7:30 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
Topic: Holla!! - Images in Hip-Hop Music.

Distinguished Speaker Series:
Thursday, November 6, 2003: Jesse Ventura (Tickets available October 29, 30, 31)
Thursday, February 5, 2004: Maya Angelou
Monday, March 29, 2004: Linda Chavez
Tickets are available at the Eisenhower Auditorium Box

Lecture
New York, the Secret African City by Robert Farris Thompson. Thompson is the Colonel John Trumbull professor, history of art; professor of African-American studies; and master of Timothy Dwight College at Yale University.
Nov. 7th, 7:30 p.m. in the Schwab Auditorium.


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Date Upcoming FastStart Events
11/6 (Thu) FastStart Networking Tea

Time: 4:00-6:00pm
Location:110 Henderson Building
12/5 (Fri) FastStart Fall Celebration

Time: 5:00-7:00pm
Location: Heritage Hall, HUB-Robeson Center
RSVP by December 1, 2003
1/7 (Wed) FastStart Winter Celebration in Philadelphia

Time: 4:00-6:00pm
Location: Philadelphia Recruitment Center
RSVP by December 22, 2003

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Questions
We welcome your comments and questions. To get involved, please call 814-863-6386 or e-mail FastStartInfo@psu.edu.


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